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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

HOW I MET CHE GUEVARRA' S DAUGHTER

Qatar Marine Festival


When T.P comes home I haven’t really slept. I had locked the door from inside and feared I would be too deep into sleep to hear her knock.  I am so happy to see her. It’s been more than two years since she came to my house.  “How do you like the view from the thirteenth floor?” she asks, sitting on the convenient inner edge along the bay window.               
 “You remember how you hypnotized me to rid me of my fear of heights?” I’m impressed, with T.P, with my hypnotherapeutic skills and mostly with the view.                   

T.P has made plans for us to spend the evening but we are too excited to meet again and too busy questioning each other on places and acquaintances. She’s still a workaholic, she laments. Every morning, she starts work like everybody else employed in Qatar at seven o’clock, but when everyone close their files and switch of their computer at two pm, she stays on for at least another two or three hours and she goes to her office on Fridays when the whole Gulf is at rest or worshiping. By the time we stop talking and get dressed to go out, the evening is well advanced.                                 “We are going to have to walk in the sand.” She says.  “So let’s wear rubber sandals. We’re going to the Marine Festival. But first we’ll have dinner at City Center.”
On our way down, we stop on the fourth floor to investigate: the Olympic size swimming pool, a gym, a couple of restaurants, one hair salon for the gentlemen and one for the ladies (the windows leave no chance for anyone to peep). Right now, it’s Kmart we’re interested in and when we briefly return to the apartment, my face must be beaming now that I have found milk and croissants.  We must hurry; our transport is waiting in front of the main entrance. It’s a limo and T.P introduces me to the driver who gives me his card which I’ll probably need to call on his services when Karwa taxis are too busy.

City Center is a shopping mall, not any different from the ones in Kuala Lumpur except that in this one they sell clothes in decent sizes. Malaysian fashion retailers seem to believe that the whole female population of the country was born and bred to fit into size S or even XS. I recently found out that there is even a size 0! There is one size though that gets me most frustrated for the false hope it gives me when I pick it up: the FREE size (!!??), which seems to be even smaller than the rest; so where’s the freedom in that?            More often than not when I enter a boutique in Malaysia, I am served with a flat “We don’t have big size.” Are Malaysian ladies fashion retailers burying their head in the lumpur (mud)? I believe they are; and hopefully some of the contestants of the new hit TV show “Biggest Looser Asia” will include ass kicking any retailer not selling clothes above size 10 in their list of physical exercises; or do I live on hope?

T.P just asked me to decide what to have for dinner: Italian, Mexican… I am quick to choose Arab, a mixed grill with finger lick good hummus which by the way comes with Turkish or is it Iraqi bread. At the next table I can’t help noticing a group of four women who are making their food disappear under the black veil that covers their face from underneath their eyes. I am sure they too lick their fingers. 

We catch a Karwa taxi but the driver doesn’t quite seem to know where in Doha the Marine Festival is. I personally make a silent and educated guess that it must be somewhere along the shore. Thankfully T.P knows her way around and her landmarks too.   
The "landmark"
                         
We’re on the beach and quite satisfied with our choice of footwear. The night simply feels good as we stare at the cloudless sky dotted with stars and planets and satellites and sadly no UFO to write about. Is it the refreshing breeze, the splendid lights on the facade and gardens of a distinguished hotel ahead of us or is it the lull of the dancing fountain behind us? Here I am with a good friend, far, far away from home and in wonderful spirits. Doha feels beautiful.
The Dancing Fountain With a Crowd


Traditional Fishing Boat

We’ve just passed a traditional fishing boat resting on the beach; there’s a group of men sitting on the sand on one side of the embarkation; they are wearing the thobe, the traditional robe, and look like a regular crew. We are not sure if the whole scene is only here as an exhibit as we can see, a short distance ahead, a number of powerboats displayed on their trailers. As we visit some of the tourism booths, a chatty sales man recommends us to spend the rest of the evening at the beach cinema under the stars.  “Tonight they are playing “Titanic” he enthuses.  With this in mind, we can’t help a furtive second look at the Navy’s display.                                                               
What we’d really like to see is the Sand Art and Sculptures show, so we return to the beach where we find ourselves unwelcome in the middle of a bossaball match. If, like me, you have never heard of “bossaball” before, it’s because it is a newly invented sport. If you thought that all that could be done with a ball, big or small, had already been done, you are in for a surprise: you were wrong! Yes indeed, as it is, the ball happens to be a very versatile object for the creative sporting mind: combine football, volleyball and gymnastic with spectacular acrobatic moves and you will be playing bossaball. Voila!                                                        
We are told that tonight, players, of both genders, are from Brasil and Europe and that the game is played on an especially invented inflatable court with trampoline in the middle, which helps players make spectacular jumps and movements. As I comment on the attractive blond, tanned and amazingly flexible young girls in tiny shorts, TP explains with a few words: “When it’s sports, it’s allowed”. 

We have reached the Sea Food Cooking Contest compound. Eighteen local chefs are competing with around the world and local dishes. As competitors remain fully focused on the job, spectators are entertained by a live singer while the event is being filmed and reported by a western-styled and very attractive Arab woman. The first prize, we learn, will be a return ticket to his country and one week paid leave for the winner. So much for the eighteen local chefs!       

The Seafood Cooking Competition




The cultural village, which was built on the same beach, is of course in full activity. It recreates a traditional Qatari village, with white walls and a tower shaped like a sugar bread;the type of dwelling that existed when the livelihood of the people came from fish and pearls, until that is, Petrol and Gas started earning the little peninsula the big money. 


Here, children can try their hands at pottery making and basketry and find out what spices look like inside jute bags rather than in tiny jars. A cultural shock to generation PS (Play Station)!  


Inside the building there is a marine exhibition going on with large aquariums; and did I mention that everything tonight is entirely free? The place is packed with families with young children. The purpose of the event is to promote the love and care of the natural environment of the Arabian Gulf.    
I play with my camera, catching T.P on the other side of one  of the aquariums and getting a very strange result. We notice a gathering around a man who scoops water beings out of their element to let people touch them. I guess it must be based on the idea of a touch-pool where one can experience tactile contact with aquatic creatures such as star fishes, sea urchins etc., except that here, whoops! Someone just dropped a starfish to the floor.                                                            






                                                                


Once outside again, we’re on a public square. A group of twelve male musicians have formed a circle, seated on a set of matching red carpets. Their robes are dark grey and the cloth on their heads, the Ghattra, is white and held by a black cord called Agal. They are playing of kinds of rather large drums and one is even using a hollow earthen jar


The rhythm is fast and enthralling and seems to have called one of the men to dance and perform high jumps in the center of the circle. I’m having a splendid time and a fully sensual experience with the sea breeze on my face and in my hair, the scent of iodine, the music, and the whole visual scene in front of me. Moments like this one are epiphanies that give the ultimate sense to traveling to far away countries.   
I can’t help wanting to catch and immortalize something as impalpable as the spirit of a spectacle in time; I keep on clicking while through my lens I can see family groups who have come for the show. Qatari men can have four wives and they often have that many. I can see that quite a few of such families are here tonight and the women seem to be enjoying a great time together. They are all dressed the same though, covered in black cloth from head to toes, literally. I wonder out loud how husbands can recognize their wives in a crowd.                                                                               T.P who has been working in Qatar for two years now tells me that until today she has never seen the face of some of her colleagues. Only a few of them have removed their face veil in front of her, in the privacy of her office room. The others, she has learned to recognize by the perfume they wear or by their eyes when they can be seen. “A good challenge to develop lazy senses.” She concludes and I can’t help to comment “Rather confusing with those who enjoy changing eau de toilette every day.”                                    As for foreign women who, like TP, are employed by government agencies the drill is to cover the shoulders (which really means all the way down to the wrists) and cover the knees (which really means all the way down to the ankles).

A man sits on the sand, leaning against the flank of his resting camel. The scene is a show of loving partnership between the man and his mount and it is made of sand! I suddenly remember that only last night while flying from Kuala Lumpur to Dubai, I was half dreaming over an in-flight magazine announcement for the Cap d’Agdes sand show. Now I feel I am getting two holidays for the distance and price of one. France will have to wait.    
   
                                                                                                                         The show is also a contest which attracts international artists. Walter McDonald is here from Texas, Craig Mutch from Canada, Paul Hoggard from Yorkshire, Remi Geerts from the Netherlands, Ruslan Korokov from Russia, Calixto Molina Navarete from Mexico, Benjamin Probanza from Spain.        In their work, the artists have been asked showcase Qatar’s traditions and marine heritage. TP and I are in awe. As we move from one display to another, we find ourselves standing right in between a breath-taking sand reproduction of a medieval tower and a messy sand pit where a supervisor is doing his best to encourage the artistic talents of a dozen over-excited children. I can’t stop a sudden memory flash back to my childhood days building sand castles with French Riviera or Corsican beach sand, except that my towers were mere block shaped in small plastic buckets and that all my efforts always crumbled down within minutes. Despite my age, I know I’d still belong in the messy sand pit. The whole festival is a real family friendly event and the vision of Her Highness Sheika Mozah Bint Nasser who’s goal is to encourage children to develop a sense of self-confidence in their abilities, pride in their accomplishments and a chance to cultivate a positive view of the world around them; a laudable effort in this region.   
Most artists are not around tonight; only Walter McDonald is here, probably because he is only half way through building a Qatari citadel.                                                           There’s quite a crowd observing the master and T.P recognizes someone: “The woman in red” she says.              “I have seen her somewhere.”                                                I have been in the Gulf for just a day, yet and since Dubai airport terminal 2, I have only seen women dressed in long black robes, often with their whole face hidden behind a black veil. So a woman in red here, at a no nonsense family event, I am surprised. I look in the direction T.P is now staring while rewinding her inner memory tape. She is thinking.                                                                                “I remember! It was In today’s news paper. She is Che Guevarra’s daughter, now in Doha to attend a documentary festival organized by Al Jaezeera.”  I quickly recall that Doha is the head-quarters of Al Jaezeera.                                      It must me my Nikhon D60 that makes me grow an attitude, that of a foreign reporter. I don’t wear the shoes, but I carry the camera.                                                                     “Let’s take a picture of her shall we? Let’s have an adventure!”                                                                      T.P’s first reaction is to giggle and follow me; her second one is to back off into the crowd as soon as she sees a Man in Black with a wired ear make a bee line in my direction.                                                                                                “Do you know who this is?” He asks me, pointing towards the woman in red.                                                                        I remain straight-faced and without lowering my camera I answer him politely and lie:  “No, I don’t know. Who is she?”                                                                               “She is Aleida Guevarra, Che Guevarra’s daughter.” His pride is obvious. “Would you like to take a picture?”                        I feel lucky with my reporter’s attitude. “Sure, that would be great.”                                                                                  “I’ll take your picture with her.” He says. “Give me your camera.”                                                                                I venture a quick look behind me to get a glimpse at T.P who sure looks concerned. I’d bet she thinks that the man in black is actually confiscating my camera and that I am going to have something to write about Qatari jails, perhaps en route to a Cuban jail. I did tell her that I had come to live an adventure, didn’t I?                                                                                               

 Aleida Guevarra and I are now standing close to each other, smiling at the camera. She is obviously used to doing this sort of thing with total strangers like me, she is very sweet and yet I can read the obvious question all over her face: “Who are the heck are you???”                                              I am beginning to feel guilty of intruding her evening with my silly prank,  and I suddenly feel obliged to say something out of courtesy, possibly not too cliché, to give her face:  “Hi! Welcome to Qatar!”                                                       Where are the appropriate intelligent words when I need them?                                                                                               I can only hope that outside Cuba, she’s met a lot of goofies like me.                                                                                  I am quick to sneak away, reclaim my camera from my Man in Black and catch up with T.P. As we walk away from the confusion caused my Aleida Guevarra’s suite, we make sure to take enough distance to allow ourselves to burst into laughter.                                                                             T.P who knows everything that happens in Doha tells me that Tony Blair is arriving tomorrow. Is she throwing me a bait?  “Shall we try this again?” I say this as a joke, but TP does not seem quite sure whether I am serious or just kidding.        "I don’t think his security guards would let you go near him.”  She says.                                                                               “Look, Tsung Ping, if we want adventure, we must dare our fifty percent chances of receiving a Yes for answer.”           She must think I have completely lost it and I love it.  

If Aleida ever happens to read this, I want her to know that I meant no disrespect and that she now belongs with my good memories of nice people. Our encounter came in a long, very long line of what I like to call  “trends of awareness”, like, for instance, reading about the Capt d’Agdes sand competition and finding myself, without any planning, at a similar event in Doha. It’s the same thing with Aleida Guevarra; just before I left Kuching, I finished reading a travel book written by Ann Mustoe and titled “Che Guevarra and the Silver Mountainwhich help me, this evening, to meet the Che’s daughter as a total stranger yet not as an ignorant or as one of the millions folks in the world who think that Che Guevarra is just a good T-shirt face.                                                                        Aleida and her three siblings has lived all her life in her mum’s country, Cuba; however, her famous dad, Ernesto “Che” Guevarra who helped Fidel Castro come to power during the Cuban revolution, was Argentinean. Ernesto was the son of a wealthy family and was a doctor in medicine. In the book I read recently, Ann Mustoe (the author) was following the road he and a friend had travelled on a big bike during a holiday break from medical school. Ernesto’s encounter with Cuban revolutionary Aleida March, among the guerilla in the bush, somehow reminded me of Causette and Marius‘s love story on the barricades in “Les Miserables”. Revolutions, somehow, have always inspired romantic stories and it may have something to do with a theory in psychology that in time of war, nature has made sure that once the conflict and therefore the fear, have passed, the appropriate action to ensure self-preservation and pro-creation, will be taken: an upsurge in sexual activity to replenish the losses. That’s right; revolutions are made of these too…                 For Ernesto though, it wasn’t just about libido; the Che who lives eternally in history as an idealistic hero also left private memories with his family of a loving husband and dotting father; when together, they were happy. The Che died in 1967, gunned down by Bolivian troops; daughter Aleida was only seven years old. Now a pediatrician, she still lives her father’s ideological legacy as a militant communist. The island of Cuba is quite high on my list of places to visit before I die; who knows, I may dare to call on Aleida when I get there? I’d love to catch up, sincerely.  
Meeting with Aleida Guevarra

           

WELCOME TO DOHA!

20th April

FINDING T.P

Standing next to my hand luggage on the shuttle bus that carries passengers from the Fly Dubai aircraft to the airport terminal, stranger amongst strangers in a totally foreign land, in need some sort of emotional belonging, and I suddenly want to do like everyone else; so I turn on my Black Berry. The instant messaging alert brings a sense of familiarity. I open my first message since Kuala Lumpur: “Welcome to Doha!” signed T.P.                                                         There is one more message about having a nice stay in Qatar and reassuring me that the Malaysian embassy is here to assist me. Nice touch although should I come to find myself in a bit of a pickle, I’d have to call the French for help “Au secours!”  As I put away my hand phone, I give no further thought to any embassy whatsoever; after all there is not a single cloud in the sky and it’s probably going to be this way until I leave in a week’s time.

As I am about to officially enter Qatar through the immigration counter, I remember TP’s last email which was meant to prepare me every step of the way:

 Arrival

A bus will take you from the plane to the arrival hall. At the arrival hall, go to the immigration counter (hopefully not long queue but be a bit kiasu and get to the queue as soon as you can).

At the immigration counter, they will take QR 100 from you for visa on arrival - only credit cards though...so hope OK.

Once you clear immigration, take your bag and then head towards the exit where they will scan your bag (please don't bring any alcohol, pork ...a total no-no). Once scan is clear, you head towards the exit.

Come out from the arrival hall, turn left, you will see a string of blue Karwa taxis - hop into one and ask them to take you to Edzan Towers .  It should cost you about 40 riyals. I think you can change money at the airport...USD exchange rate is fixed here. It is 1USD=QR3.65

At Ezdan, I'll leave a note at the reception saying that you are coming and ask them to give you an extra key. You can then chill and relax in the room @ use the pool, etc. Just make sure the reception registers you - he/she will ask you to sign a form and fill in your details and take a copy of your passport. Your bed is actually ready waiting for you.....
On this, can you send me your passport number and full name as per passport so that they don't make any mistakes and to hopefully speed up the process.

Towels, etc all ready in the bathroom - in advance...please do make yourself at home. I'll try to stock up the fridge - anything you fancy? Eg coke light or normal? 7-up? etc...

After that....it’s just down to us to paint Doha RED...ha ha… how does that sound?

See you real soon !
TsungPing
Outside the terminal, I hardly have to wait for my ride. It’s just as well, at almost nine o’clock in the morning, the sun is already unforgiving. Karwa taxis are operated by the Qatari government and they all use a meter. My driver seems rather temperamental; then again I am quick to realise that everyone else seems to be driving fast and furious and I notice something else too: the cars here are all mighty big, most of them are Toyota four wheel drive and models which I have never seen in Sarawak.
On my left, just as we leave the airport zone, I notice a gigantic poster on a billboard advertising a residential project that looks like dream world bathed by the ever blue Arabian Gulf. 

Hardly enough time for a sigh of envy and my driver informs me “Al Corniche!” The Cornice or waterfront runs all the way around the bay of Doha which is not only the capital of the country but also the main port. I understand that we are now on the old Doha side and that the splendid grand avenue we’re on will take us to the opposite side of the bay, where all the sky scrapers are and to Edzan Towers.


Although my arrival at Edzan has been expected, the receptionist looks rather concerned with my very personal style of negotiating the rotating doors while dragging two small cabin cases and carrying my back-pack over my left shoulder. I am too jet-lagged to notice the conventional glass door next to the not-so “merry-go-round” I am caught into. Still, I make it to his desk on my own two legs. Here in Doha of all places I’d hate to give the impression that I am under the influence of alcohol. I don’t know if he is impressed with my balancing act but the man is very polite, with this sort of politeness that makes one feel comfortable right away, despite having made a fool of oneself. I hand him my passport of which he quickly makes a photocopy then he steps out from behind his counter to take me to the thirteenth floor (mum would cross herself three times).                 When I finally close the apartment door; I count twenty three hours since I left home. T.P is at work and won’t be back for another few hours, yet and thanks to my obliging gentleman escort, I feel like a first class guest.

 ROOM SERVICE!

T.P’s flat has a large living cum sleeping area, a reasonably sized kitchen, a TV nook and two bathrooms. Huge bay windows overlook the bay passed a few towers. As T.P promised, my bed is ready and there is a note waiting for me:

“Annie,
WELCOME to DOHA!
When you read this note, it will mean that you are at the start of your Doha experience and “Alhamdulillah” as they say here.

Sorry, my apartment’s slightly messy and I have not quite stocked up the fridge. Nevertheless, please make yourself at HOME. This is your bed, i.e. where this note was. Give yourself a tour and enjoy the view when you are in the living room.

If you fancy a swim @ a run on the treadmill, head off to the 4th floor  that’s the recreational floor. If you decide to stay in, I have movies in the cupboard below the TV – take your pick. Feel free to switch on the lap-top. Internet speed isn’t 8MB but doable. Have set up an “account” for you – Annie’s the name.
Tuesdays are cleaning days  great if you could let the cleaners in BUT if you’re going to take and eye shut, no worries, just leave the “PLEASE DO NOT DISTURB” sign outside on the door handle. Wld be good if you could pop up by K-Mart / any of the restaurants for lunch unless you don’t mind some left over curry and if you make yourself some rice, they go quite well.

Just in case you could not change $$ @ the airport, please feel free to use the QR200 here  Interest free J

Looking forward to seeing you."

I always like to unpack my bags and hand my clothes as soon as I reach destination and as soon as I get back home too. This done, I pick a choice of comfortable clothing and aim for the spare bathroom. Taking a shower feels like a blessing.            Back in the bedroom, I pick T.P’s letter again. I think she is an amazingly thoughtful friend and I guess she would be a most talented planner in the hospitality industry.                         
I am in no mood for lunch at a restaurant and I decide to skip the curry. Whether I blame it on tiredness or on the many meals served during the flights, the fact is that I am simply not hungry. Right now, I feel torn between the urge to spread myself across the mattress and give the attractive pillow a big hug and the will to stay awake to let the cleaners in rather than letting them use their pass and find me passed out on my bed. I decide to wait.

12:30 knock, knock! “House-keeping!”
I let two Indian looking young men walk in. One looks as if he is in charge; only he talks (a lot!) while his colleague doesn’t (at all!).
The chatty fellow’s name is Aruna; he is from Sri Lanka. He tells me that he’s been working as a cleaner at Edzan Towers for one year and nine months. He cleans 19 rooms (some are suites) every day, for which he earns 900 Qatari Rial (QR) every month, out of which he needs QR200 for food, QR100 to use his mobile phone to call home and another QR500 to send to his Mum and sister back in Sri Lanka. He goes on to explain that he has no dad and that he is the sole bread earner to sustain the three of them. He doesn’t like working in Qatar and he is planning to quit in August to go back home where there are lots of temples and flowers.  The Doctor (T.P) and I must go and visit him and his family he says. I met him only minutes ago but he says I’m really nice, like the Doctor.  “But I’m only going back for a holiday” he goes on telling me.  Then he explains: “The Doctor’s friend who stayed here before said I can work in a hotel in Malaysia; I’ll earn more there too.”
The two young men are leaving, one without a word and Aruna full of encouragement so that the Doctor and I visit him in his village. “Everything will be free!” and seals his final words with a powerful hand-shake.
Pillow, oh Pillow, am I the sleepiest girl in the world? Here I come!
View from Edzan Towers' Poolside
                              

DOORSTEP LAUNCHING

From Borneo... to Qatar

April 2010

First to Dubai 
 
Do you recall Michael Jackson’s Black & White video where teenager Macaulay Culkin blasts his un-cool dad (George Wendt) who is still sitting on his reclining chair, into the stratosphere and back down to some African desert? Well, that’s what I have just done to myself, I have launched myself from my doorstep all the way to the dunes of the Arabian desert; figuratively anyway, since I left my reclining chair in our TV room back home and used Malaysian Airlines to fly to Dubai.
Now that I find myself sitting alone at the back of a taxi, I am scanning the road side, anxiously looking out for a sign or any clue for that matter that would reassure me that this indeed is the way to Dubai airport’s Terminal 2 where I am supposed to catch my connection flight to Doha.                                                     For fear he finds out that I don’t have even a clue of where I am right now, I dare not inquire with the driver:  “How far is Terminal 2?” As if he wouldn’t have guessed the very second I spoke to him that I’ve never been here before! It is three o’clock in the morning , I have just flown in from Kuala Lumpur, and earlier from Kuching, East Malaysia, on the island of Borneo.                                                                                                                               
Lack of sleep and change of time zone can play tricks on the mind and I realize now that for the last hour or so, I have been acting on auto mode, intent on following the list of instructions given to me by the Terminal 1 transit officer, to first clear the immigration (French passport holders do not require a Dubai visa), then collect my luggage before grabbing a cab to proceed to Terminal 2 to catch the Fly Dubai connection to Doha.            

 This part of the journey is where the unknown begins and although this is not quite “The Amazing Race”, right now, anxiety is sinking in and I can hear myself silently whining “What on earth am I doing here?”

It all started just over a month ago really, when I checked my Face Book and noticed that my friend Tsung Ping (she likes to introduce herself as TP) had posted pictures of racing Camels. I wrote a few smart comments and concluded my message with “Really, I must come to visit you while you’re still in Doha”. This, of course, prompted a wild exchange of emails that eventually led to my booking flights from Kuching  to Doha, Qatar via Dubai (i.e. the Arabian Gulf) for the second half of April. Once done, I suddenly remembered that I suffer from anxiety of traveling alone!
I wasn’t always like that, worrying that I will not be able to make it on departure day, once everything has been booked and paid for; in fact I used to be quite the opposite.                                                                                                         
The proverbial travel bug must have bitten me shortly after my birth and I could safely say that it was purposely planted in my baby cot by my dad, a sea-faring captain by family tradition (my Corsican grand pa’ was the first captain of the first brig-schooner ever to sail off the port of Marseilles) and happily for him, by sheer vocation.                                                                             

From a young age, I was always a bit of a weird one: I loved going to school (absolutely!). This, however, would not stop me from fretting with impatience days ahead of the holidays, to the extent that I’d lose the ability to sleep. When the day finally came for me to join Dad on board his ship, I’d check myself into the captain’s suite as if it was my own, ready to turn into an absolute nuisance from galley to bridge. The ship would call at Ajaccio, Tunis, Sphax, Delphi or even Athens and although we never left the Mediterranean Sea, at every port I felt as if I had reached Xanadu! 
 On my sixteenth summer, I was literally expedited from sunny Provence to cloudy England, care of a studious holiday camp. My parents gingerly hoped that a home stay with a British family would help improve my most pathetic English grades. My older brother had promised me that sixteen was the best year, ever in a life time, for everyone; so I was seriously concerned with the turn of events. Fortunately I soon found out that I was not the only one to board the train to London via Paris Gare du Nord; by the time our carriage rolled out of the station, leaving teary parents standing on the platform and waving pathetic goodbyes, a bunch of us had already figured out that a few hundred teenagers for a handful of supervisors was the perfect ratio for a long, long night of fun that would take us all the way to London!                                                                                                 
The trip to England was very successful; the Wood family was charming, especially Shirley, the mum who allowed me go out every night (I still haven’t told MY mum). I made many friends both French and English, I got myself a tan (in Kent, yes!), fell in love with Christopher and most importantly for my parents I came back quite fluent (although unknown to them, yet certainly thanks to Christopher).                                       
To date, July 1971 still remains my best ever holiday; it is also the holiday when I found out how much fun it can be to travel alone, without knowing anyone prior to the journey. I made numerous trips to England, as often as my parents would let me and later as often as time and finances allowed me I traveled across Europe by train, and once on a big bike from Scotland to Marseilles and one day, to everyone’s surprise even mine) I actually flew to Borneo to meet my future husband’s family. By chance Swee Ann was a marine engineer whom I was able to join for about a year, as his spouse, on board a magnificent Scandutch container carrier on the Sweden to Japan run.
Naturally, when our two sons were born, I did what my father had done for me: I deviously placed the travel bug inside their cot.                                                              
Every year we would fly to the south of France and that’s where we were when the new century finally came and Y2K didn’t.    What should have been an exceptional as well as historical trip turned into a misery. My back was seriously aching and by the time the four of us were thankfully back home in Kuching, it had become a real torture for me to walk, sit or even lie down. When the month of July came again, I had undergone two major surgeries that left me in agonizing pain for more than six months. It took me about five years to recover almost normal sensations on the whole right side of my body.                        
The experience was a mixed of blessings (of family love together with the discovery that life is beautiful despite and beyond physical pain) and of trauma. In the year 2000 I traded my confidence for anxiety; I stopped being able to make appointments or any sort of commitments and sadly I became fearful of traveling, especially on long journeys, all by fear of not being able to show up at the last minute.                                                                                                             Had anxiety killed the travel bug? I truly thought so as I would not go anywhere alone; instead I’d follow the likes of Samantha Brown, Jennifer Adams or Ian Wright on our TV screen, telling Hubby that one day we should go, to which he would reply “When I retire”.  I understood then that I needed to commit an act of bravery, I needed to stop dreaming over other people’s travels and go back to doing my own again. What I really needed was to drag myself out of my house, away from the “Travel & Living” channel; if necessary I needed to catapult myself out of home; I needed a doorstep launching.

As I am remembering all this while on my Dubai taxi ride, I can finally hear the old me scolding: “Well, you’re here now so take it like a Woman, girl!” Filled with renewed confidence I look ahead, to my right where I can see a great big sign indicating “TERMINAL 2”. 

And on to Qatar on flydubai
                                 

Friday, October 8, 2010

SHOPPING IN KUALA LUMPUR (KL)

Living in East Malaysia (Borneo) certainly has its perks; for instance there are no foreign embassies here, so that when you happen to be an expat like me, you have no choice but to go to KL when you need to renew your passport. This is how, a few days ago, I paid a visit to l’Ambassade de France on Jalan Ampang.  So where’s the perk in that, you may wonder? No less than a perfect excuse to spend a couple of days in the capital and indulge in window shopping in some of the trendiest malls in South East Asia, and if you have never come to Asia, trust me, shopping here is absolutely AWESOME!                                          
With such a good shopping “opportunity” I invited my best friend Helen to come along and from where our hotel was, on Bintang Walk, we couldn’t ask for a better situation: Pavillion, Star Hill, KL Plazza, Lot 10, and of course Sungai Wang and Bukit Bintang Plazzas and even Time Square were all within walking distance. I was even able to check out on a new lens for my camera at Low Yat Plazza which specialises in computers, cameras and various gadgets.
I love the Pavilion, the most affordable part of course and unashamedly the top designers section too. Who wouldn’t feel grand walking through gigantic doors, passing COACH on the right side and being welcome by MARC JACOBS. I must confess that I always walk out of there happy, with perhaps something out of Tangs, a pair of shoes from Nine West (I even found a pair of elegant Zang Toi sandals at Parkson) and a little something chic from Bimba and Lola on the ground floor (I love this boutique! See my latest bag?); and what to say about one of my favorite boutiques, Ralph Lauren which conveniently faces The Loaf that serves pastries which I find impossible to resist? What a nice way to ponder over a cuppa and decide on whether or not to go crazy over that chiffon skirt which happens to be in my size?
Right on the opposite side of the Walk, we were happily surprised to find KL Plaza had undergone a full make-over; so and off course, we had to explore it, which was a good idea as we found out that every boutique in there seemed to make a point to offer something different while we were beginning to think that the only difference from one shop to another was the price tag on the same blouse or tees. Chapter 8 in particular felt special both in decor and goods and the fact that everyone was fussing around a lovely model pausing on a cosy chair (I was allowed to take my own picture) definitely added a touch of glamor to our visit.
Again it was great going to KL, although rather overwhelming after a while. Ask most East Malaysians and they’ll tell you that three days is the maximum they can take of the fast and furious pace of life in the capital city; this is why, flying homeward bound back to Kuching is never a sad moment. Life’s good in Borneo, until that is, the next excuse to visit KL.


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

GETTING BORED AT THE MOVIES

Eat, Pray and Love.

Starring: Julia Roberts, James Franco, Richard Jenkins, Viola Davis, Billy Crudup, Javier Bardem
Director: Ryan Murphy
Cinema: MBO at The Spring, Kuching

 It seems like just a while ago that Elysabeth Gilbert appeared on the Oprah Winfrey show. The author sounded extremely excited as she should have, knowing that she really had it made with Oprah loving her book “Eat, Pray and Love”. As usual with Oprah, the hype spread worldwide and well, all the way to my regular bookstore. How many times I was tempted to purchase the book is equal to how many times I didn’t; and why didn’t I? This will remain a mystery, even to me; or perhaps was it intuition? Some things though are bound to catch up with us , no matter how much we try to avoid them. My friend Ratna put her own copy in my hands and of course, I read it and (now I hope I won’t make Oprah and her few millions of followers, mad) I didn’t like it one bit; in fact I felt I was reading someone’s very intimate diary which was none of my business and I felt like a voyeur; at the end of it I was plainly bored with Elisabeth Gilbert’s indiscretions and the pace of the story.
A few months later...
The trailer for the movie based on Gilbert’s story sounded quite promising and I was simply curious to find out if Julia Roberts and Javier Bardem would strike in me the chord which the book hadn’t. I organised to go to the cinema with a small group of friends whom I knew had also read the book (whoops! They didn’t like it either) and of course, Ratna. We went opened minded and very partial to Julia Roberts although none of us really expected an “Erin Brokovitch” and it was just as well we didn’t. We came out some two and half hours later, frankly bored from watching clichés no doubt conceived to make the USA believe that only they have moved on since the 1950s.                           I 
Is it a cultural thing? Or is it Oprah creating waves out of nothing much? The fact is, I won’t buy Gilbert’s next book now in store and should anyone attempt to lend it to me, I’ll pass.

ETHNIC COUTURE : BREATH-TAKING




Style knows no borders. In far, far away Borneo the World Craft Council organised the 6th World Eco-Fibre and Textile (WEFT) Forum from the 24th to the 26th of September 2010 in Kuching.
Delegates who came to share their knowledge and experiences on Natures’s Colour Code in Basketry and Textiles had come from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal, Sri Lanka, Philippines, China, Canada, UK, Switzerland, USA, France, Australia, Korea, Taiwan, Lebanon, Kuwait, Oman, Indonesia, Singapore and Malaysia.
I attended the gala night where I met many very chic friends. Equipped with my Nikon D60 I simply had a splendid time.



















Winnie Wong's Sarawak Batik

Winnie Wong

Winnie Wong

Winnie Wong

Winnie Wong

Sarawak Beads Worn in Style

Edric Ong, Show Organiser and Vice President of the World Craft Council for South East Asia

Gathering for the Grand Finale